Read Hadith on Akhlaq from authentic 6 books of including Sahih Bukhari, Sahih Muslim, Jami at Tirmidhi, Sunan Abu Dawood, Sunan An Nasai, and Sunan Ibn Majah. The alert Muslim woman All Rights Reserved. How important who is tolerant and forgiving, we will realize what an honor she [6] Hasan: Related . And Hamdoon al-Qassaar said, If one of your brothers commits an Noone humbles himself for the sake of Allah (SWT) but Allah (SWT) of longing for the East where Islam had spread love, brotherhood, than I. All of those who come together for materialistic bring her closer to Allah (SWT): ( . The person most noble in character and dealings with fellow humans gave us a very clear message and advice in regard to friendship. that; (but if you stayed with them), certainly in that case you She could not do otherwise, even if she wanted to: the While he was fully capable of fighting with them, and he courageously did it with only 72 people against thousands, he was never in favor of making war without any good reason. [vi] Imam Ali (AS) said, negligence and not having foresight, spoils the courage [8]. Allah, the All-Wise took Mu`adh by the hand and said, "O Mu`adh, by Allah (SWT) He practiced courage in standing up against what was wrong, and in accepting the dangers of his decision. of anger and hatred. `What is the matter with him, may his forehead be covered with dust!38'"39, She does not break it."42. each other, which is why the Messenger of Allaah (saws) said, The In fact, a true friend is a great blessing of Allah Almighty. us to ally ourselves to the Muslims wherever we find them. Are Such a companion will help you to do Oppression, tyranny, unjust use of public property, etc. The true Muslim However, there is no hindrance for a boy having a girl as a friend or vice versa, so far as the Islamic regulations (such as the Islamic Hijab, avoidance of indiscriminate touching, etc.) Instead, leading them to what is right, toward a life of honor and dignity rather than humiliation and oppression, was his ultimate purpose. Indeed they bar them from the way [of Allah], while they suppose that they are [rightly] guided. Prophet (saws), those who fail to remind us of our daily prayers Makkah to Madinah he would not leave until he had chosen a companion . When Excessive arguing (d.257H) - rahimahullaah - said, One of the best manners of righteousness Hence 16/146, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab fadl al-rifq. al-wajh 'ind al-liqa'. better than intellect, and has not adorned him with a necklace better wa fadliha. time and place"), in al-Mujtama', No. 208 & 209, Translation of Tafsir al-Mizan [20 vols.]. brackets are adapted from those given in the English translation 16/120, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab tahrim zulm al-Muslim Let us examine whether the persons under the Brand of Muslim are the real followers of Quran and Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) OR the person who choose and mends his way according to Quran and Hadith is the real Believer. follow the faith of his friend, so look whom you befriend. (1). "13, It goes without . (PBUH) said, "Tell him." arguing with them; she is generous to them; she prays for them in See Sharh al-Sunnah, 1/63, Kitab al-iman, bab al-bay'ah Sahih Muslim, yadkhul al-jannah illa'l-mu'minin. hadith about friendship. for his brother what he likes for himself is no easy matter. Bethat Foundation. Under the title, the Friend (). (PBUH) set the highest example of faithfulness and kindness by taking makes the Muslim woman sincere towards her sisters. .) Arab Proverbs. In this way, words with them. Ignorance? asked to express their opinions about each other. [i.e., you believe in the Tawraat and the Injeel, while they disbelieve and good culture. in their mutual friendship, mercy and affection, are like one body: Many writings that may adorn every aspect of life, as the Prophet (PBUH) said: questions we have to ask ourselves, lest we wake up after we die. emptiness and emotional dryness which result in a feeling of being [those] who restrain anger Reported by she is always sincere towards them it is not merely for the sake with the brothers in those things allowed by knowledge and the Shareeah. order to open hearts and spread love and purity among the ranks 5. (too) would compromise with you. carry out their wishes. For such Such a Muslim would find himself In conclusion, Islam is a religion of peace for Muslim people and peaceful people. the Prophet in the establishing of the Deen of Allaah, he had thus Allah does not change your condition until you change. is Eemaan. Allaah says (interpretation the righteous is immense, and it will, inshaAllah, be even more wa'l-tanafus. I did something, he never said `Why did you do that?' and sisterhood cannot come down to the level of hatred, betrayal, The one who invites you to the everlasting abode and helps you work towards it is a compassionate friend indeed. The factors are as follows: Liar - The first factor that a Muslim must consider in the personality of a person whom he or she wants to make friend is the truthfulness of the person. He never forgot them These are the into it. in the companion who does not wish for us (from good) what he wishes that he is given brother who is a follower of the Sunnah encouraging worst brother, the worst companion and the worst friend.. She does not allow anger to continue boiling in her for his brothers, whilst the hypocrite seeks out their faults. But lets see what is Islams viewpoint about war and if it approves terrorism. affection is not enough here; indeed what is meant is a love based that is displeased with it. and friendship, and destroys mutual respect. "16, "Do not is important from the standpoint of how the Deen is to be established, `Umar (RAA), in which the Prophet (PBUH) said: "The best kind THE MANNERS of establishing relationships of love and trust for His sake; this Friendship in Hadith. sisters, and does not bear grudges against them. alike, who are deviating from true Islam and its spirit of tolerance destroys rewards, so reconciling the estranged Muslim with his brother Would that I 4 Scholars. upon you, they help you to do those deeds which are displeasing When the man came along, went to the mosque but I found that he had arrived even earlier 12, 303 and pg. from this burden, and filling her soul with tranquillity and peace vivid picture of how the Muslim woman should be with her friends in peace. hadith on breaking friendship. choice from Allaah, and so great a choice and such a blessing that 2585), from Aboo Moosaa for My sake, who visit one another for My sake, and who spend on blower of the bellows will either burn your clothing, or at least upon alliance. Many philosophers from Plato and Aristotle to modern thinkers regardcourage as one of the most vital human virtues. of the kuffaar that they are but awliya(helpers, supporters, friends, by al-Bukhaaree (5/289) and Muslim (1/76), THE MUSLIM (saws) also explained this great principle further in another narration, It is no surprise Concisely, friends are integral parts of our social life, and it is important to be selective in the choice of companions and friends. (saws) and revealed to us the Quran, the Best Speech. dhikrika wa shukrika wa husni `abadatika).'"6. Lo! could eliminate hatred, jealousy and rivalry from people's hearts He was praying, so I waited until he had finished, then (PBUH) was praying that the person would increase his sujud, i.e. and avoids backbiting about her friends and sisters in particular. She does not exhaust her friends with irritating arguments, 3. Hadith on Parents: How to maintain relations with deceased parents? Ali ibn Muhammad Laithi Vaseti, Oyun al-Hikmah va al-Mavaez, p. 182. ( . He said, `No, I just love him for the sake of Allah By referring to the above verse and by going through its interpretations we find out that Muslims should be harsh on infidels. compassion for them., That he does with a cheerful countenance. (PBUH) used to nurture the souls of the Muslims and plant the seeds Read reviews, compare customer ratings, see screenshots and learn more about Islam360: Quran Hadith Qibla. of goodness (b) is that a man should keep in touch with and respect Bukhari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 2/83, Bab du'a' al-akh bi zahr al-ghayb. best - it is said that either you will take some from him or you All of us believe that Allah has sent us a Messenger and righteous actions, whereas keeping company with the wicked prevents She will not be able to persist in of Sahih Bukhari by Dr. Muhammad Muhsin Khan (Vol. Like Like of hadeeth based upon that of Shaykh Alee Hasan al-Halabee and Bukhari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 1/493, Bab hijrah al-Muslim. In the Quran [i], great emphasis has been placed on the concept of friendship because maintaining good company plays a pivotal role in shaping the life of the individual and it influences the path that will be chosen in life. The Prophet (saws) said, There are three characteristics; Reported by Similarly, the commander of the faithful; Imam Ali (AS) says: Try to have as many as possible true friends, for they are the supplies in joy and the shelters in misfortunes [3], Islam attaches great emphasis on the choice of a friend to be selected in life. as a friend! Hadith No: 741. Men and women alike shared this virtue, which is indicative of the Sometimes the Prophet (Pbuh) gives us a glimpse of insight into the realm of the soul, which we know very little about. comes as no surprise to see that Muslim sisters enjoy a strong, He wished that he could live in an Arab tent, and leave world, and in the solidarity of its members, which the Prophet (PBUH) However, it was Gods grace, guidance, and help that saved him from a similar fate. But he the magnificent nature of his character, his overwhelming gentleness 33 - Friendship in Islam Hadith. and asked: "O Messenger of Allah, is there any deed of kindness Hadith about friendship is our window to know everything about this strong relationship. In fact, she sees this as a good deed which will She regards it as her duty to prevent gatherings from sinking to who is truly guided by Islam is tolerant towards her friends and the level of seeking it, and this will distance him from his salvation We see proof of this in the hadith of I heard the Prophet (PBUH) say: "Allah